Sex and Autism

Perimenopause hit me like a brick

This is the most personal blog I’ve made so far. It makes me feel raw and vulnerable to be sharing this, and I wondered if I would be brave enough to do it. But now it’s written and even recorded, I’m actually feeling quite proud of myself and I do feel brave sharing it.

Perimenopause is like one of those elephants in the room. But it needs to be talked about! Half of us are going to go through it, and without fore-knowledge it’s a really scary thing. Trust me 😉

It’s heavy at the start, but please don’t get disheartened. It ends with hope.

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Navigating Social Anxiety with Autism: People Pleasing and Surviving the Me Too Shitshow

An autistic based snapshot of my struggles with social interactions, my tendency to people please and why I do it. I share details of a social experiment I conducted after I moved to London, that confirmed my perception of myself at the time of being barely human. I also share a me too moment of how being abused as a child affected me, with regard to my autistic nature, no details.

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Pleasuring and Being Owned by a Colleague

Continuing the attraction story I posted earlier. This is how it played out in the end. As is so often the way in our encounters, I took a submissive role and let myself be used. It’s crazy how hot being a pleasure station can make a sub. I was really, really nervous about being with him at the start. WARNING: I’m consensual tied up in a D/s kind of way in this one, groped and my mouth is used to pleasure cocks.

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Moments of Attraction

You know sometimes you see someone in a random place, and you feel this wave of attraction washing over you? Do you wonder if the other person feels it too? This started out that way, I explained it to my man (he’s German, German’s possessively refer to each other as my person) and he suggested we invite the person. In this case it wasn’t a random stranger. Here’s that part of it, the next part will follow soon.

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