About Sundial - Intimacy, Autism and Perimenopause

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Welcome to my site. I write about sex, kink, intimacy, fantasy, bodies, longing, love, power, awkwardness, tenderness and desire.

I write openly about sex because I don’t think shame helps anyone. I’m interested in what turns us on, but also why it turns us on. 

I’m also a late-diagnosed autistic woman, currently being dragged through perimenopause with all the grace of a cat in a bath. That shapes the way I write too. Sensation, logic, overwhelm, craving, connection, the constant need to analyse my own feelings while also being completely undone by them – it carries through in almost all of my blog posts.

This site is for adults only. There is explicit sexual writing and audio here, and some of it explores kink, power exchange, objectification, CNC, or darker fantasy. I label things clearly so you can choose what you do and don’t want to read.

In real life, consent matters. Trust matters. Boundaries matter. The fact that fantasy can wander into shadowy places does not change that.

So that’s me. Autistic, perimenopausal, filthy-minded, overthinking most of the time. And writing about sex, and producing audio porn on the internet.