The Real Stuff

The real-life stuff: most of the real sex blogging done here, but also thoughts, updates, identity, kink and polyamory. My autism is often mirrored in this writing.

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Vulnerability, Fatalism and All That

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A real-life update on how I’ve been feeling recently, and how that has affected my output. Or that’s what it was supposed to be about.

Turns out it’s about how change has affected me and left me feeling vulnerable.

But there is also a very hot bit about how a very dominant man made me let him break me.

I’m full of confusing statements this time. 🙂

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A hand drawn hour-glass. There is sand falling through to gather at the bottom. In the top part, there is a line drawing of a torso of a woman. She is naked and her hands are above her head. She is being sucked through the hour-glass.

A Perfectly Normal Autistic Woman: the profound effect of small kindnesses

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A beautiful post by a trans woman about ciy allyship, acceptance, kindness and belonging got me thinking about my own uneasy relationship with womanhood.

This post is about masking, girlhood, misunderstood kindnesses, and the relief of knowing I’m not actually an alien imposter.

I’m a perfectly normal autistic woman.

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Meet Me in my Dreams

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Gemini returns with a gloriously surreal slice of cosmic erotica. A mysterious letter arrives with impossible instructions. This leads to a full-on trippy, hypnotic descent into the stars.

This one is lush, strange and intensely sensual; an erotic fever dream. The imagery is gorgeous throughout and the emotional connection between the characters is just beautiful.

Mesmerising stuff.

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