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Highlights of 2025: Guests Writers, New Bloggers, Changing Times

2025 has been a wild, gorgeous ride. This is a celebration of the incredible guest blogs I’ve had the honour of hosting to the jaw-droppingly hot new bloggers on the scene. Of the people I’ve met through what I do, and of my man and me, our ongoing adventures together. This is why I LOVE sex-blogging.

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This is a line drawing of a man’s midriff. You see the point from just above his belly button down to just above mid-thigh. He is wearing jeans, they are open, at the waist and you can see the top of his briefs where the zip is undone. His belt is open and hanging down either side of the opening. He is topless, you can see his belly button and there is a hint of muscle at the sides of him drawing into his loins. There is a hint of a line of hair down below his belly button and another leading up towards his chest. If you have a particularly good imagination, you can imagine the shading in the jeans to the left-side of the zip indicates his excitement. There’s something so sexy about belts and jeans!

Seven-and-a-Half Tonnes

4 Comments / Fantasy, Sex on the Spectrum, The Real Stuff / Sundial / 18 December 2025

Yeah, so I was having an autistic reaction to an intense overload of a day, and the kindness of a stranger reduced me to tears in private, but also lead me into an erotic daze of fantasy that still fills my mind when I’m getting down, if you know what I mean 🙂
And of course it’s a nice excuse to get the tits out again, innit?

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Three became Two again

2 Comments / General Ramblings, Sex on the Spectrum, The Real Stuff / Sundial / 21 November 2025

Our gorgeous buddy has found a new direction, and though we will miss him terribly, we’re over the moon for him. Three has become two again. It’s hard, there’s a deep sense of loss, though we will not lose the friendship. We’re looking to the future now and wondering which direction we’ll take.

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A black and white line drawing of a bunny with slightly deranged very evil looking eyes. It is sitting with its back to you, looking over its shoulder at you. One ear up, one down. It has a big tail, that is depicted with lines to be moving with excitement. It has a thought bubble above its head. Inside the bubble is the white flag of surrender.

Anal – The Psychological Aspect

3 Comments / The Real Stuff / Sundial / 13 November 2025

There I was, in the passenger seat of our car, casually simmering, when a question appeared on Mastodon: what makes anal so good beyond touch? I had plenty of time to consider this on our journey, through dinner and on to the events that followed, which had been nudged exactly where they needed to go, yay me.

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This is a blackline drawing on a pink background of the internal structure of the clitoris. It looks ever so slightly like a bird standing up. It is labelled and shows the external part, the glans at the top. Underneath sweeping out to the sides are two long, relatively thin wings, the crura (singular crus) these wrap around two large vestibular bulbs, which join together in the main body, towards the top of the clitoris. Between these bulbs lies the entrance the vaginal canal, and above it, the urethra.

Vulvember – A Celebration of the Vulva

Leave a Comment / The Real Stuff / Sundial / 9 November 2025

While scrolling Mastodon, I first encountered Vulvember; a playful yet powerful celebration of the vulva. From anatomy to body hair, cultural shame to personal pleasure, it’s an invitation to appreciate this gorgeous part of the body. Every vulva is unique and different, and should be celebrated with the pride it deserves! All vulvas are beautiful.

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A loving embrace showing a partner's hands resting on a woman's collarbone and chest, representing an open relationship.

Part 9: Best of Three: Sunday Double Penetration

2 Comments / Audioporn, Sinful Sunday, The Real Stuff / Sundial / 24 October 2025

This is the last of the Sunday Horn series. If you followed the day, you know exactly how all three of us are feeling by now.
After a mind-blowing release, my man threw me right back into the full of grip of desperate horn, by making me BEG for DP. I am positively desperate for an ass-fucking, the vibrating butt-plug has been working its magic for hours, that tickling ache inside needs relief.
And those two are so sexed up, they’re ready to blow. But then, trouble – they both want to fuck my ass…

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