Beyond the bedroom: an honest collection of personal blogs on how I see and experience life. Everything from navigating the intersections of Autism and sex to the raw realities of perimenopause and how HRT has affected me. These ramblings will give you a little insight into my world.
An update on my perimemopausal journey. I’ve now been on HRT for a few months, and although it has helped me a lot, it hasn’t all been plain sailing. But my dose has been adjusted and I hope very much it helps.
Perimenopause: My HRT Journey Read More »
I’m a sub, I know I’m a sub. And I have subtle body language that gives it away without me meaning to. Sometimes even in front of my boss. This is about the psychology of sex, and about the way I feel safest yielding to men I trust.
More Moments of Attraction: Am I Really that Obvious? Read More »
2025 has been a wild, gorgeous ride. This is a celebration of the incredible guest blogs I’ve had the honour of hosting to the jaw-droppingly hot new bloggers on the scene. Of the people I’ve met through what I do, and of my man and me, our ongoing adventures together. This is why I LOVE sex-blogging.
Highlights of 2025: Guests Writers, New Bloggers, Changing Times Read More »
Our gorgeous buddy has found a new direction, and though we will miss him terribly, we’re over the moon for him. Three has become two again. It’s hard, there’s a deep sense of loss, though we will not lose the friendship. We’re looking to the future now and wondering which direction we’ll take.
Three became Two again Read More »
Last year on New Year’s Eve, I released a blog post I had written for a friend and his wife. They were going through monumental changes in their relationship, due to her realisation of her suppressed sexual identity. Since I wrote it, I have been wanting to explain what the post means, and now one year on seems like the right time!
I’m going through a difficult patch at the moment, I may be made redundant soon and the insecurity is destroying my equilibrium. I’ll be taking a break from Sundial, until I am in a more stable place.
But hey, it’s a new year. Happy 2025 people, may it bring you health, happiness and may all your kinkiest desires be realised!
Much love, Sundial
This is the most personal blog I’ve made so far. It makes me feel raw and vulnerable to be sharing this, and I wondered if I would be brave enough to do it. But now it’s written and even recorded, I’m actually feeling quite proud of myself and I do feel brave sharing it.
Perimenopause is like one of those elephants in the room. But it needs to be talked about! Half of us are going to go through it, and without fore-knowledge it’s a really scary thing. Trust me 😉
It’s heavy at the start, but please don’t get disheartened. It ends with hope.
<3
Perimenopause hit me like a brick Read More »
